I had a moment on the plane. One of those moments where you
stop for a minute, just one minute to bask in the beauty of life. I can’t accurately put into words what overcame
me. I looked out the plane window somewhere over the Middle East and thought,
“Wow…so this is where it all leads”.
The past year has been a whirlwind
to say the least. It’s been chalk full of failure, uncertainty, love, loss,
grief and frustration. But for some
reason, all I feel is overwhelming gratitude. The things my former self might
have considered failures have turned out to be the most incredible gifts I’ve
ever received. That moment on the plane, I felt the gravity of that gratitude.
For however brief my soul was overcome with thankfulness, I felt unadulterated
joy, happiness; in it’s purest sense, and I cried.
I wish I could tell you every day
since my arrival in India has been laced with the same sentiment. My first week was overwhelming to say the
least. My first “oh shit” moment came when the hot water in my shower (which by
the way is a generous term for the spicket that comes out of my bathroom wall)
didn’t work. It took a good 10 minutes of talking myself into the ice cold
water. You’d be surprised how many excuses you can come up with for NOT showering.
India IS overwhelming. It’s
overwhelming and confusing on every level. It’s brimming with life, and life is
both overwhelming and confusing. It’s
real, it’s dirty, it’s smelly, it’s heartbreaking, it’s loud and yet at the
same time it’s vivid, it’s vulnerable, it’s vibrant, and it’s incredibly
beautiful.
Walking to work I literally run the
gamut of human emotions. I pass a woman colorfully covered in a pink sari
bending over a campfire to cook breakfast for her family, and I smile. Almost simultaneously I turn the corner and
step over the saddest dog I’ve ever seen. The balding patches on his fur reveal
a bony skeleton and his eye is sealed shut by a thick layer of blood and grime.
He doesn’t move out of the way because he doesn’t have the energy to. My hand
instinctively covers my heart and my belly, anything to appease the sinking
feeling I can’t escape. I feel helpless.
On the same road full grown men
stop me to ask “Excuse me mam, from where are you from?” Their curiosity amuses
me. I stop to buy oranges, 24 for $1.50 from the man with a limp and a lazy eye.
Lately he’s been lighting incense in the middle of the piles, I guess it’s good
for advertising? His excitement to sell
me a bundle of oranges dismays me.
A few meters further I pass a
family of 4 living on the sidewalk under a heap of newspapers, cardboard boxes
and dirty tarps. This time I can’t keep
walking. I give them my lunch of PB&J and a handful of oranges. Their
gratitude for my meager offering humbles me.
Boys on bikes with bushels of dead chickens
hanging off the sides and men with long poles carrying massive baskets of eggs
pass me by. Smells of roti and dhal
start to fill the air as the street vendors begin their cooking for the
day. Everyone stares at me. I guess I stand
out. They have no qualms about staring at the strange white girl as they sip
their morning chai.
So this is India. This is my new
home. It’s a crazy place. I’m sure I’ll have a few breakdowns. I’m sure I’ll
laugh until my stomach hurts as I take in all the strange sights and
inconsistencies. I know I’ll cry, but most of all I’ll be truly ALIVE. I’ll experience life in its confusing,
overwhelming and raw beauty. As they say
here “Let’s wait and see”.